To All Men, Note,
WOMEN WILL PUT UP WITH ONE, MAYBE TWO, nights without
an orgasm from you. But you'd better know how to hit
her G-spot before too long or you'll be getting cosy
with her answering machine. Here's why: For 70% of
women, penetration alone is not enough to bring them
to climax. That's a hell of a lot of women walking the
earth with no satisfaction. See a way to get laid
more? Understand her orgasm(s), as well as when and
how to give them, and you'll be a more confident man
with a lot more sex in your life. Consider this your
contribution to womankind. If you're a woman,
pass this on to your fella.
FIND HER G-SPOT
The most
elusive part of the female anatomy is a ridged
surface--approximately the size of a nickel--about two
inches into the vagina, on the front wall. You can
locate the G-spot by inserting two fingers into the
vagina, palm up (to your second knuckle).
CLITORAL
ORGASMS
Best tool to
give her one: Your fingers. Use the middle digit on
your dominant hand, with help from your pointer.
Always use the padded middle of the finger, not the
tip or nail.
Initial technique: Find
out what her motion of choice is--either little
circles or flicks upward or downward. Pay attention to
nonverbal cues (like gyrating or tensing).
Troubleshooting:
Lubrication is crucial at this point. If occasionally
dipping into her well doesn't work, reach for the
lube. Spit works just fine in a pinch.
Drive her over the
edge: While continuing with her stroke of choice, make
your touch broader by using more of your hand. Add a
bit more pressure until you bring her to climax.
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Still not getting
there? Call in a backup.
Second-best tool: Her
vibrator. Use mostly the head of the toy, rather than
the shaft. Choose between the classic ridged variety
and the smoother bullet style. (The alien-like ones
with all the attachments are for when she is alone.)
Initial technique: Rub
the vibrator up and down along her entire private
part, slowly. Use light pressure and a low setting.
Don't be scared of the vibrator--you need to hold it
firmly in order to satisfy her.
Troubleshooting: Hold
the toy before using it, to warm it up. (Cold is a
definite turnoff.) Remember to ask if she wants it
turned up or down a notch. And click on some music to
drown out the hum.
Drive her over the
edge: Focus all your attention on the clitoris. Then,
as she gets more into it, start making longer
movements from the clitoris to the G-spot (see "Find
Her G-spot" above) and back.
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VAGINAL
ORGASMS
Best tool to
give her one: Your tongue. Use the tip and flat middle
of your tongue as the primary source of stimulation.
Initial technique: Make
firm motions with the tip and middle of your tongue.
Then slip the clit into your mouth and massage with
your tongue, as if sucking on a tic-tac.
Troubleshooting: Don't
be shy about using your hands to hold her "lips"
open--that's the only way you'll get the very best
access.
Drive her over the
edge: As she becomes excited, broaden your strokes and
make them firmer. When she's close to an orgasm, use
your fingers to rub her G-spot as well.
Still not getting
there? Call in a backup.
Second-best tool: Your
penis. To please her, you need to focus your energy on
what you do with the head, not the shaft. The ridge
that separates the head from the shaft feels
particularly good to women.
Initial technique: Use
your penis to make short motions in and out of her
vagina. As she becomes excited, add longer thrusts.
Remember to keep the clitoral stimulation going on as
well.
Troubleshooting:
Contrary to what you've been taught, deeper thrusts do
not equal a better orgasm, at least for her. In fact,
once past the G-spot, there's not much within the
vagina that stimulates pleasure.
Drive her over the
edge: While using short thrusts, grab hold of the base
of your penis and press upward, so there is more
pressure on her G-spot. Continue with short thrusting
motions, gradually getting faster and faster until she
climaxes.
